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Even with me, there’s a big difference between summarizing a study about why you should have sex before a workout to a group of male friends and providing a vivid account of what I learned from a vaginal orgasm class to a date. And I know exactly what I’m doing when a man I like asks me how my day went and I tell him I just bought a new pair of thigh-high stockings and some lingerie. Nowadays, flirting with a woman may feel more daunting than ever, and it might seem impossible to know how to tell if a girl likes you.

They usually fiddle around with their hands or with another object. They might play with their hair or fiddle with their cellphone. Try to observe if she does this a lot when she’s around you.

This can be a form of showing off for you or preening, and it’s fun. If he’s the “class clown” and he’s being silly to the whole office that’s one thing, but if he’s directing all of his energy into trying to make you laugh, it’s a sure sign he’s into you. When a man likes a woman, he feels a magnetic pull toward her.

Let’s face it, when you yawn the rest of the room yawns too. It’s not really sign you can rely heavily on, and while none truly are, this one should be filed under normal human behavior. If you she likes you, her upper body will be pointed and leaning towards your direction. Women who are uncomfortable, much like men, tend to either sit straight or slough back away from the person their talking to.

You’re on her mind a lot if she texts you multiple times every day. Does she text you about how tired she feels after work? Does she text you just to ask if you’ve eaten? If this sign doesn’t make you realize that she likes you, then I don’t know if you’ll ever realize that she does. A girl will text you all the time if she likes you.

She knows that you’ll probably become closer to each other if you have similar interests. This can be an awkward situation, but it is an obvious sign that a girl likes you.

• Sometimes, she will even blush during a conversation when the guy she likes talks directly to her.
• She may touch your arm when you say something funny, “accidentally” brush your shoulder or hands with hers, or gently place her hand on your knee.
• If you’re having a conversation with someone to whom you’re not attracted, you don’t think about how the conversation is going or how they feel about you.
• Of course, this can be tricky, since girls aren’t always upfront with their feelings.

A woman who doesn’t like you certainly wouldn’t do that. Similarly, with group setups, you can tell that she likes you if, out of all the people in your party, she chooses your presence to stick with. You don’t have to be necessarily talking to each other.

Blushing is a reaction that is subconsciously controlled by your nervous system, and when you feel extreme emotions, like anger, joy, or physical attraction, that nervous system tends to overload and cause the muscles in your face to fill with blood. Therefore, if a woman blushes around you often, she is likely physically attracted to you. Since this is an automatica reaction, and not something she can control, its one of the more doubt free ways to determine that she likes you.

If she talks to you online but shies away when she sees you, then the odds are she likes you a lot but is having a hard time showing it in person. Test the waters by smiling at her and asking her simple questions like how her day is going. Notice how she acts around others.

Whenever I pass by or talk with her she’s always prolonging her eye contact, smiling at me a little longer than normal, and she’ll always shift more towards me when we’re talking to each other or in a group of people. Also our conversations are always long and back and forth. I’ve NEVER been able to talk to other girls the way I’ve been able to talk to her. If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you.

Reading How She Reacts When You Do Things

Let’s say you’re on the fence as to whether or not a woman is interested in you. Maybe there’s a woman in one of your classes you’d like to take on a date.