What to Do if She Does Like You

Read more about signs a girl is into you here.

That’s awesome! Doing the same — thinking about things she might be into and bringing them up in conversation—is a great way to show that you’re interested in her too.

I’ve NEVER been able to talk to other girls the way I’ve been able to talk to her. asking me what am I doing, are you hungry, you can come over if you want, or ask me if I want to go like the store with her. Cause I know she does not like to drive places alone. Also we almost text everyday and it goes back and fourth on who texts first.

Forget being too timid to approach her and ask one simple question to find out. My point is, don’t look at the mystery of women as being a negative. Instead, enjoy the excitement of chaos, have fun, and take action; that’s what dating is all about. Let’s face it, woman can be mysterious, and for lot of men, it confuses the hell out of them. However, that’s not such a bad thing.

This is as general as it gets, and still, it’s incredibly important. If all you focus on is what’s going on inside your head, or your own feelings and reactions when you interact with a girl, then you will never develop a reliable “feel” for the situation, and the beautiful human being you have in front of you. The direct approach might seem like a good idea, but asking if she’s interested in you isn’t being direct — it’s seeking validation. You’re telling her that you’re not confident that she does like you…which means she’ll start looking for a reason not to. And just like that, you’ve conjured a massive roadblock out of thin air like a lovelorn Harry Houdini.

• Of course, she could be looking for validation or simply boasting too.
• She sent you a photo.
• The next day she new I was a little upset about work and offered me a hug.
• You’re having a conversation at work or at a social event when she suddenly touches your arm or shoulder.

5. She Seems Nervous

The next step to know if this healthy girl likes you is… she’ll touch your arm, giggle at your jokes, be grateful for you picking up the meal, defend you if someone isn’t cool, remember shit like your baseball tryout. When a woman likes you, there is a very obvious, visible sign to take notice. Her body language will never be stiff or turned away from you, with her torso parallel to your torso at all times.

If you’re on a date and she hasn’t walked away from the table, you’re fine. Ever notice how often a woman who’s nervous touches her hair non-stop? Just twirling it around in her fingers for no apparent reason. In reality, when it comes to dating that’s a great thing, or sign should I say.

But this kind of game is different… it’s a game of building passion and intensity, and one you’re really going to want to try. When a girl likes you she wants you to have a bigger part of her life. One way she communicates this is by sending you updates about what she’s doing. If you see pictures of yourself on any of her social channels, it’s one of the great signs a girl likes you. Physical contact is important in any relationship, and it’s a great sign if she’s already breaking the touch barrier down.

It won’t work, and you’ll just come off as a desperate, creepy dude. Just as observing an anomaly in a tactical situation doesn’t automatically mean there’s a threat, an anomaly in the world of romantic social cues doesn’t automatically mean a woman wants to sleep with you, marry you, or even go on a date with you. All it means is she has an initial attraction to you and is open to your making a first move. That could be a conversation, a dance, or you asking her out on a date.

So when another girl comes in to take her away, that’s hardly ever a random occurrence. It’s just an elegant way women have to eject from an unpleasant situation without being bitches about it. Deal with it. There’s a subconscious reaction called mirroring that people do when they like someone and it basically means to copy their body language.