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1. Meet a woman and make her feel sexually attracted to you

It has NOTHING to do with you and your relationships (or lack there of) and it’s a total waste of time to think negatively about it or them. We look at the girl, we see the guy she’s with, and we automatically assume he must be a jerk – and we don’t even know him, her, or how the relationship even got started. Forget about sex. Just invite her for the sake of spending more time with her. Of course, if the situation leads to sex it’s great but don’t push it!

I know you tell yourself those are the reasons you don’t have a girlfriend, and I know they’re believable. I believed them myself for years. But they just aren’t true.

Don’t stop doing small things for her because the small things matter. Keep writing her little love notes, or buy her a doughnut on the way home, or fix something she’s been meaning to get to.

You’ll have plenty of time to get to those stages — and, just as important, to see if you are truly compatible. Focus on really getting to know her yourself first. There is no need to involve your family of any sorts for at least a few months.

Alternatively, if she turns you down, accept her answer gracefully by thanking her for her honesty. Whether you’ve been casually dating, exchanging flirty messages, or hanging out only as friends, asking a girl to be your girlfriend can be a nerve-wracking experience. But it doesn’t have to be! You can ask her with confidence by using a few strategies.

• If her life is complicated or she doesn’t want a relationship, you will have to decide whether to continue getting to know her or to try a different girl.
• It’s a shame because they really have all the pieces except for that one last little piece.
• Don’t ever go to bed without kissing her goodnight and never leave her without kissing her good morning, even if she’s still sleeping when you leave.

If you are already friends and want to take things to the next level, then ignore this step. However, if you just met or are only casual acquaintances, spend time together in a group or ask her out indirectly.

Make Sure She Understands That You Want A Relationship

Zoos are great because you never run out of conversation topics and things to do. She’ll grab you when she sees a cute animal or a scary one and after you’ve seen dozens of different animals it feels like you’ve travelled the world together, so there’s this distorted sense of time like you’ve known each other for ages.

This will help you find love better than trying to force a relationship with someone. It’s normal to be curious about dating in junior high. Talk to your parents or guardians to see if it’s okay for you to date. If it is, start small by just getting to know someone. Use this time to have fun and get to know yourself rather than trying to get serious.

While it’s tempting, try to avoid fixing her problems, and instead, be a good listener. Make sure to include her in group plans and perform simple acts of kindness, like giving her a ride or paying for her coffee.

It’s okay if you’ve never heard of her interests or if you don’t like some of them, but don’t put her down if you don’t enjoy them. If you want to be relationship material, you need to make an effort to learn about her interests. Getting a girlfriend can be hard — especially in middle school. Many girls and guys go through rapid physical and emotional changes in middle school and are still on the way to figuring out who they are and what makes them happy. If you want to get a girlfriend in middle school, then it’s likely that you and the girl don’t have a lot of relationship experience.